I don’t know if you saw the video of a 28 yr. old dad being shot in front of his son; dying in front of his son. I don’t know if you saw the police press conference wherein they explained the “stand your ground law,” and why that meant that they didn’t need to charge this guy. I saw it. In fact, I can’t un-see it. Now, people on both sides are going to argue about this – because that’s what most of our society is interested in doing. However, you don’t read or listen to my thoughts because you’re like “most people.” Instead, you’ve demonstrated that you’re some kind of weirdo that wants to do their best to try to be objective and try to see past your own limited perspectives – in the same way that I try to see past mine.
So, let’s break down what happened here, because, the sooner that we as a society start to think reasonably, the sooner we can get our country back on track. This was an escalation of more than just hostilities. It was an escalation of idiocy. Please note: I’m not placing blame – I’m analyzing the situation. As always, read through to the end before you get all pissed off at me, ok? Once you get to the end, then you can get all pissed off at me.
- First, a young woman parks her car in a handicapped parking space. I don’t know why she did that. I would bet that no in the world wishes she had parked in a legal parking space more than she does… well, no one except for maybe the dead guy’s little boy. Nevertheless, she did. It was a poor decision. (Ed. Note: In the video in the linked article, she says she has the right to park anywhere she wants. So, given that bit of information, I’d say she’s likely to continue to park in handicapped spaces. Her ignorance is not the end of the analysis, though… we have to keep thinking and keep working through this)
- But then, captain vigilante shows up deciding that it’s his job to hold people accountable – OH! and also, he figured that two wrongs do, in fact, make a right… It wasn’t enough for this guy to take down plate numbers and file a police complaint. No, he needed to engage in an argument with this woman. He has now escalated the situation, needlessly.
- Dead guy – having bought snacks for his 5 year old son, comes rushing to the defense of his girlfriend who was being
attackedpunchedyelled at by some dumb ass, andyells at captain vigilante to stoppushes captain vigilante away from the car and gets inshoves captain vigilante so hard that you might almost confuse him with superman – because captain vigilante is flying through the air. - Having been sent flying, captain vigilante whips out his handgun and takes aim at the dead guy, who does appear to be approaching him threateningly. By the way, I keep calling him “dead guy,” because, I feel like that drives a point home; this guy died over this absurdity. So anyway, captain vigilante carries a gun, which serves two purposes. First, it offers great protection when one has a habit of confronting people who park illegally in handicapped spaces. Second, but still very important, it would be much harder for him to tell himself that he is Bruce Willis from the original “Die Hard,” movie, if he didn’t carry a concealed weapon.
- Seeing the gun, dead guy becomes the first person in this entirety stupid and pointless exchange to make a sensible decision. He very clearly appears to back away.
- Captain vigilante, not being deterred from the fact that all indications are that the danger to his safety has passed, takes aim, and fires. He does NOT get a gold star. He appears to have had every chance to de-escalate the situation in that moment. That is a tough sell, in terms of a “stand your ground” justification. I’m not a Florida lawyer. However, I am a U.S. lawyer, and I’m also a “reasonable person.” It is very difficult to imagine how captain vigilante’s fear for his life was reasonable, in light of the video evidence which shows (a still very much alive) dead guy backing away from the gun that was aimed squarely at his chest.
- There’s no evidence that this was (overtly) racially motivated. If the dead guy was white, would the conversation be the same? Probably not… We’d probably be talking about how there was another shooting death and why we need to ban guns. However, an objective view of the very-recent history of western civilization makes it pretty clear that the people who have lost their sh*t will find a way to kill someone, if they feel so inclined. I’ve already written about the British politician that has proposed banning sharp kitchen knives, due to knives attacks in the U.K., as a legitimate solution. We’ve seen trucks, pressure cookers, and all manner of objects used to inflict death and destruction on innocent people. However, if you want to engage in the debate of whether there are ways in which we are biased which are unknown even to ourselves, you should at least put yourself to the test first.
I offer this solution: we need to stop allowing ourselves to be so neatly, and easily divided, by politicians, the media, and all the other ilk that profits from telling us that all of our problems are someone else’s fault. Human history has been marked by times of war and (brief) times of peace. The worst of the wars often seem to revolve around (at least one group of) people becoming unhinged and (at least one group of) people being dehumanized. Nazis to the Jews; Japanese to the Chinese… and the Americans… and basically everyone not Japanese in WWII; the slave trade (when and wherever, it has existed), which has consistently led to wars, and has always been reprehensible in its own right. That’s the direction that we are headed in – both sides completely dehumanizing the other side, with actual malice for anyone that even remotely resembles them. We need to slam on the brakes. We need to be able to look at a situation like this – where there are a couple of people who are being idiots and just acknowledge that they were both being idiots, without feeling the need to “stand up,” for “our team.” We need to be able to distinguish the levels of idiocy. We need to be able to think and reason for ourselves.